Friday, March 30, 2007

Why I Blog

Having been with my sub for a few years now, I realized that I needed an outlet to express the feelings, impressions, learning's and frustrations of our unique relationship. My sub is required to write me weekly at the end of each week and reflect on that week. It could be a reflection of our latest meeting, or a if we haven't met, a reflection on something in chat, or even a thought that has occurred to her. Over the years I have found this a valuable insight into my sub and I have used the information to adjust my approach going forward.

She has had no such insight into me however. As the Dom, it is my role to guide the relationship and as such, I felt the need to do so was not necessary since I could do so we interacted. As it turned out, we have had a bumpy ride in our relationship and I have come to see, (and been made to see), that some way of knowing the impact she is having on me, is necessary. My sub enjoys reading blogs, especially BDSM related blogs, so here I am blogging for her and just maybe, blogging for you too.